Yes! Completely free. There are absolutely no hidden fees.
Yes! We now do! That having been said, searchers can choose to filter out traveling posts, and posters can choose to hide their posts from traveling users.
We deeply believe that people should be able to truly express who they are, that's why we support 22 genders people can select from. Don't see one that's a fit? Reach out to us and we'll do our best to accomodate! The list is: Woman, Man, Agender, Androgynous, Bigender, Cis Man, Cis Woman, Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming, Hijra, Intersex, Non-binary, Other gender, Pangender, Transfeminine, Transgender, Trans Man, Transmasculine, Transsexual, Trans Woman, Two Spirit.
It’s on our to-do list. Contact us through the app if you’d like to request additional features!
Yes! See our Coming Features. If you have tags or hashtags you’d like to use, contact us through the app and let us know.
Not currently. Please do not post an event as it will get an account banned. When we do though, we’ll of course also update users' search filters so they can avoid such posts if they want to. It’s a user’s right to choose what kind of posts they see.
Unfortunately the vast majority of social media handle references in app self-summaries are there to serve as a follower-funnels, or worse are there to lure users to another service where they’ll be propositioned/scammed/have their time wasted. Therefore, to protect our users, social media handles in posts are not allowed.
Addendum: If after messaging for a bit you’d like to exchange social media handles, that’s perfectly fine, but please review our Message Guidelines, and please remember that message threads can be reported even after they’ve been disconnected.
Navigate to your posts tab and swipe right on your unopened post. If your post is elligble for renewal, the renew button will be purple. Otherwise it will be red. Posts can be renewed 4 days after being posted.
Navigate to your posts tab and swipe right on your unopened post. Posts can always be edited, so the edit button will always be purple. Please note that editing a post will unmatch all related message threads, will not renew the post, and will refresh the post's location to your currently set location.
Navigate to your posts tab and swipe right on your unopened post. If your post is elligble to be duplicated, the duplicate button will be purple. Otherwise it will be red. You can edit all values of a duplicated post.
Navigate to your posts tab and swipe left on your unopened post. Posts can always be deactivated. Deativating a post will remove it from the Bulletin Board, but it will still be tied to open threads.
Navigate to your posts tab and swipe left on your unopened post. Posts can always be deleted. Deleting a post will also unmatch all related message threads.
No. Renewal simply updates the post's posted date. Since posts are sorted by date - newest first - it will bump it to the top of results. If you do not renew your post, it will still be visible in the bulletin board unless you deactivate or delete it.
All message threads are linked to a post. The post will either be yours or the person you're messaging. You can find the post by opening your active message thread and tapping on the pencil-and-note icon on the top right corner of the screen.
Profile information, which includes a person's name, age, gender, distance, and location, can only be found in active message threads. You can find the profile of the person you're messaging by opening your active message thread and tapping on the picture icon to the immediate left of their name. If the user does not have a profile picture set, this icon will display a question mark instead of a photo.
Posters can require senders to attach photos to their initial message. These photos can be found in an active message thread by tapping on the profile icon which is to the immediate left of the person's name at the top of the screen. If there are photos attached, the rim of the icon will be purple, otherwise it will be grey. If the person has a profile pic set, the icon will display this photo, otherwise the icon will display a question mark instead.
The profile icon can be found in active message threads to the immediate left of person's name at the top of the screen. If there are photos attached, the outline of the icon will be purple, otherwise it will be grey.
This means that the post has a photo attached. Tap on the post to see it. If the icon is grey, no photos are attached, and tapping on the post will not do anything.
This means that the poster requires senders to attach photos to their initial message. If the poster doesn't require pics, the icon will be grey. You still can send photos though. They're just not required.
You can contact us through the profile tab. If you have a general question, please use that as the category, otherwise, please choose the most appropriate one.
Blocking a user blocks you from seeing their posts, and them from seeing yours. It also unmatches active message threads between you and the user if there are any. There are two ways to block a user: In threads and in posts. In threads, swipe left on the unopened message thread and tap on the option you're looking for. Either unmatch, block, or flag. In posts, you can use the flag, block, or message options. Flagging a user, either in threads or in posts, both blocks a user and reports the user to admins for additional action. Note: You can block a user in message threads even if they unmatch you first.
Blocking a user blocks you from seeing their posts, and them from seeing yours. It also unmatches active message threads between you and the user if there are any. Flagging a user both blocks a user, and reports the user to admins for additional action. You can flag a user in posts and in threads. In threads, you can find the flag option by swiping left on the unopened message thread. Note: You can flag a user in message threads even if they unmatch you first.
The X button (second from right) hides the post. You will not see the post again even if the poster renews it. It does not block the poster.
When a poster creates a kink-related post, they can add up to 5 kink-related role tags to it. The roles describe how they self-identify, and they have 90 different roles to choose from. Searchers can filter their kink-related search results to only those posts that are tagged with the roles they're looking for. Unlike posters, searchers can search for all roles, and are not restricted to any number.
No. The only information about a poster that is automatically shared on their post is their gender, age, distance, and location (real or traveling). There is no "user profile" where one can check what other posts they've posted. That having been said, posts are linked to message threads, and user names show up in message threads. So if people have multiple message threads open with each other they will be able to see their message threads' linked posts.
Not currently, but this and other features are in our to-do. Reach out to us through the app with any feature requests and we'll add them to the list!
There are two ways to remove photos from posts. First, you can edit your post and remove the relevant photo. Navigate to "your posts" tab, swipe right on your unopened post, and then tap on edit. When you get to the photo selection stage you can either say yes to "attach photos" – and then remove the photo that you'd previously attached – or say no, i.e., "do not attach photos," and it will remove all photos from the post. A second way to remove a photo from a post is to simply delete the photo. To do so, navigate to the profile tab. Tap on the photo icon on top. And then delete the photo (long press). Deleting the photo this way though will also delete the post, so you may want to edit the post to remove the photo instead.
Users can update their location in 3 different ways: When searching, when posting, and under "My Location" in the profile tab. If you'd like to travel, tap on the "travel" button, and then either enter your desired location in the text field, or simply tap on one of the quick-select options. If you're in traveling mode and want to revert to your current location, simply tap on the "use current location" button in any one of the location-selection flows.
Users can update their location in 3 different ways: When searching, when posting, and under "My Location" in the profile tab. If you'd like to travel, tap on the "travel" button, and then either enter your desired location in the text field, or simply tap on one of the quick-select options. If you're in traveling mode and want to revert to your current location, simply tap on the "use current location" button in any one of the location-selection flows.
Users can update their location in 3 different ways: When searching, when posting, and under "My Location" in the profile tab. If you'd like to travel, tap on the "travel" button, and then either enter your desired location in the text field, or simply tap on one of the quick-select options. If you're in traveling mode and want to revert to your current location, simply tap on the "use current location" button in any one of the location-selection flows.
Navigate to the profile tab and tap on the circular profile icon on top. This will direct you to your photos. Double tap on a photo for the option to delete it.
